Your marriage still needs the very first thing you brought to it: YOU.

Your marriage still needs the very first thing you brought to it: YOU.

Have you seen “Bee Movie”? Circa 2007?

I only caught the opening scene – on a TV mounted in the ceiling while my six-year-old got his teeth cleaned – but let me tell you, it was money. Allow me to recap:

“According to all known laws of aviation, there is no way that a bee should be able to fly. Its wings are too small to get its fat little body off the ground. The bee, of course, flies anyway. Because bees don’t care what humans think is impossible.”

What might be different in your marriage if you didn’t care about what humans think is impossible?

If you knew that your husband’s mood doesn’t have to dictate your day? If you believed your worth was non-negotiable – even when he implies otherwise?

If you understood that it’s possible to love him unconditionally while completely disagreeing with his behavior?

You can have the freedom that comes with those beliefs, Bee.

The shift is easier than you think.

Skeptical?

I get it.

You’ve likely been hoping and wishing and even praying for things to get better. Maybe you’ve talked to your sisters and your girlfriends and your mother for advice.

Maybe you saw a therapist – on your own or together as a couple. Or maybe you’ve kept it all to yourself, trusting that you could figure this out if you just tried hard enough and paid enough attention.

I hear you.

I’m Candice Toone and just a few years ago, I was you. Over the course of our marriage, my husband and I worked with at least five therapists – sometimes together, sometimes me on my own. We sought support from our clergy and advice from our parents. Even with that support, we were dissatisfied, disconnected and discouraged.

And sometimes, I was genuinely afraid.

Afraid because the choices he made seemed to take my choices away. Afraid that what mattered to me meant nothing to him. And afraid because the guy who’d vowed to take care of me forever really, really wasn’t.

I understand how it feels to wonder if he sees you.

Like you, I’ve worried about the example
we were setting for our kids.

Like you, I’ve worried about the example we were setting for our kids.

It’s not fun. Feels like hopeless wrapped in stuck.

I want you to know I believe that every wife ought to feel cherished and valued. Appreciated and adored.

I know we can make that happen.

Even if it seems impossible to you.

Here’s the truth.

I love you.

And I respect your husband.

I’ve already decided to believe that both of you are doing your best and I’m here to help you figure out how to make your best even better.

Because “for better or worse” is no joke.

Because sometimes it’s a little shocking to find out what “for better or worse” really means.

As your coach, I won’t spend time agreeing that your husband is terrible or suggest you should leave your marriage. I won’t suggest you should stay either. I have no idea what you should do. I only know that you and I can get you to the place where your mind is clear enough that you’ll know exactly what to do.

Ready to get started?

In my Defying Gravity coaching program, we’ll work together to reunite you with the woman living deep inside you. The woman whose dreams and desires have been buried and forgotten under the burdens of the day to day. Because you know who actually completes you?

Her.

And once you connect with her again, connecting with your husband will be a breeze. Promise.

Ready to get started?

n my Defying Gravity coaching program, we’ll work together to reunite you with the woman living deep inside you. The woman whose dreams and desires have been buried and forgotten under the burdens of the day to day. Because you know who actually completes you?

Her.

And once you connect with her again, connecting with your husband will be a breeze. Promise.

How does it work?

Click below to watch a video and learn the ONE skill that seems insignificant but actually changes everything. When you love what you’ve learned, you can apply to join the next round of my Defying Gravity group coaching program.

Watch the video. I guarantee that you’ll walk away from the call armed with at least one practical tip you can use right away.