Do you see your marriage as a safe place where you’ll get your needs met? Many women don’t – and possibly for good reason because he did THIS or didn’t do that.
Listen in to this week’s episode to hear why it’s a useful skill to consciously see your marriage as a space that nurtures you – even if it doesn’t feel that way very much of the time.
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Episode Transcript
‘s Up, Bees?
Time for a trip down memory lane. Pack up the details of your last squabble with your husband and let’s go!
Where were you?
What were you doing?
Was anyone else there?
Were you sitting? Standing? Lying down?
Was there food there? Music? Any other notable features?
Close your eyes and really be there. How’d things turn out for you?
Did you yell? Call names? Slam doors? Storm out? Give the cold shoulder?
Any other childish behavior you aren’t particularly proud of?
Well good news…
It’s okay to have some childish behavior sometimes. We all do… because HUMANS.
And I’m here now with some childish behavior you can really get behind.
This kind of childish behavior works like a charm to diffuse a scuffle whenever you want to.
All you gotta do is channel a drooly-mouthed, shiny-eyed toddler.
Because toddlers LIVE by the 3 Fs – which I’m going to reveal to you in just a minute by way of an ACTUAL lesson that lives inside Defying Gravity: The Course – my foundational curriculum that guides everything we do in my signature group coaching program: Defying Gravity Rising.
But first – have you heard about the pay what you want series I’m running this year?
In 2025, I want everyone to have access to marriage-changing support if they want it – regardless of their current bank account situation.
We started in January with “20 seconds of courage”. I got dozens of messages from the women who played along with me – they told me how they used “20 seconds of courage”to finally clear out that drawer, start that conversation, try out that class or finally wear that outfit.
So. Much. Fun.
In March, we’re doing “how ignoring your issues will actually solve them”.
Sounds weird, I know… but there are LOTS of reasons why that’s true.
I’ll go into all the ins and outs in the workshop I’m hosting on March 10 – not tomorrow but NEXT Monday. Registration opens this coming Wednesday so make sure you’re on my email list so you’ll get the link to pay what you want and come play with us.
How do you get on my email list?
Go to www.candicetoone.com and find the free course button. Not only will you get instant access to my mini course – how to have the marriage you imagined when you said, “I do” – but you’ll also be the first to know about new classes, freebies and other fun goodies.
www.candicetoone.com/free-course and you’ll be in the know FOR LIFE.
Now… back to the toddlers and their three Fs as outlined in my foundational marriage course.
AAAANNNND GOOOOO!
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And there you have it – three little F words that’ll bring your marriage closer by pouring useful vibes in for infinity.
If you loved what you heard, make sure you’re on my email list so that you’ll be the first to get the invite to register for my next workshop: “how ignoring your issues will actually solve them”.
Toddler Goggles will help frustrations flow through you – which is a KEY skill to develop AND when that’s not possible or seems out of reach… I’ve got you with everything I’ll be sharing in “ignore your issues.”
It’s a game changer and doing it together will make it EVEN EASIER to implement.
Thanks for being here in this conversation with me today – I look forward to chatting again next Sunday.
Until then, choose courage, Bee and keep on flying!
