The Story of Having a Life Coach | Candice Toone Coaching

The Story of Having a Life Coach

Sometimes one of my Bees freaks out a little bit when they think someone in their world will discover that they are working with a coach. They want to stay anonymous and they think it means something bad about them if they are getting some help or accessing support.
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I get it. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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And I don’t. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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What IF your friends know you’re working with a life coach? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Truly. What is the WORST thing that could happen? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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ALL of my friends know that I am. Really. They do. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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A couple years ago, I might have wanted to hide that too. I would have made it mean that I’m broken or my marriage is crap or some other version of shame-filled unnecessary-ness. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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I know it might seem important to “keep up appearances”, but what if it really, really isn’t? ⠀

And what does “keeping up appearances” even mean anyway? 

Appearances of what, exactly?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Ask yourself if you’d rather have the neighbors think well of you OR if you prefer having a marriage you love to live in. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Really tune in to what you gain from the PTA’s approval if it comes at the expense of strengthening your connection with your husband. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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My guess is you’d be totally fine telling everyone that you’re working with a personal trainer at the gym. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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What if working with a life coach is NO DIFFERENT?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Trainer for your body. Trainer for your brain. It’s all the same. Except getting your brain in shape with a life coach will make all of your other goals easier too – including the gym stuff. You’re welcome.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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20 years ago, practically no one had a personal trainer. Now it’s totally common.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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20 years from now – everyone will have a life coach. I’m sure of it. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Why not get in ahead of the curve? ⠀

Just click below to find out more. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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I’m ready when you are.

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I’m Candice.

I believe that every wife ought to feel cherished and valued. Appreciated and adored. I know we can make that happen. Even if it seems impossible to you. I’m a Master Certified Life Coach and I spend my days coaching women who are afraid in their marriages. You and I can work together to find a way for you to trust in your own decisions instead of constantly reacting to his. Now’s your time, Bee. How much longer are you willing to wonder and wait?

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