The Story of Permission | Candice Toone Coaching

The Story of Permission

My dear friend, Sarah Foutz, made me this card when we were in Grand Cayman studying to be Master Coaches.

Because I tend to ask permission for most things in my life.

Even if I don’t mean to, even if I’m trying NOT to – my tongue tacks on, “if that’s okay…” to a lot of things I say.

I’m not totally sure why I do this – but it’s probably because I’m polite. I really want to be nice.

I love that about myself in many ways.

It’s less amazing when asking permission means I’m not nice to me.

Like if I want to take a nap.

Or buy some shoes.

Or decline to help out with the elementary school bake sale.

I sometimes get confused with the idea that being nice to myself means I’m doing it wrong.

Like I’m going to get in trouble.

So I ask permission.

And break trust with myself.

This card reminds me that my instincts are intact.

My preferences are perfect.

And I’m allowed whatever I allow.

There are no rules. Except those that I make for myself.

What rules do YOU want to hold yourself to?

Make sure you’re deciding them on purpose.

You have my permission.

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I’m Candice.

I believe that every wife ought to feel cherished and valued. Appreciated and adored. I know we can make that happen. Even if it seems impossible to you. I’m a Master Certified Life Coach and I spend my days coaching women who are afraid in their marriages. You and I can work together to find a way for you to trust in your own decisions instead of constantly reacting to his. Now’s your time, Bee. How much longer are you willing to wonder and wait?

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