The Story of the Naked Wall

Hands down. No question. THIS is my favorite work of art.

It depicts how there’s a tender toddler inside each of us that longs for connection – even when the grown up versions of us can’t seem to see eye to eye.

Such a universal truth so beautifully expressed.

I. Love. This. Piece.

Someone created it in the desert several years back during Burning Man. I tried FOR YEARS to figure out how to get a print I could hang on my office wall.

I asked other people if they knew how I could get that done because I wanted to receive this print as a gift from someone who loved me: Boyfriend (now husband). Mom. Dad. Brother. Didn’t really matter. I just wanted someone who loved me to make it happen.

Would have been perfect.

So, I dropped hints. I got my hopes up. And my wall stayed naked. Year after year.

This year I decided I was done with all that. I took to my computer and figured out how to get EXACTLY what I wanted.

It’s hanging on my office wall right now.

And you know what I realized? I wanted to receive this gift from someone who loves me AND I DID.

The someone who loves me in this case is: ME.

I got exactly what I wanted because I took it upon myself to make it happen. Didn’t make it mean the those other people didn’t love me. Just learned that I know how to love me best.


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I’m Candice.

I believe that every wife ought to feel cherished and valued. Appreciated and adored. I know we can make that happen. Even if it seems impossible to you. I’m a Master Certified Life Coach and I spend my days coaching women who are afraid in their marriages. You and I can work together to find a way for you to trust in your own decisions instead of constantly reacting to his. Now’s your time, Bee. How much longer are you willing to wonder and wait?