Hallelujah and Happy New Year!
2020 is nearly over and 2021 lies ahead – ripe for the picking.
And here’s my very favorite New Year’s tip: the best way to predict how 2021 will go is to examine the story you’re telling about 2020.
Was it a disaster? A triumph? An exercise in survival?
I’m all for telling the truth about the hurt you’re experiencing. The trials you’ve faced. The losses you’ve suffered.
There is a time and place to feel all that through.
BUT… that time is NOT when you are looking ahead toward a blank canvas of tomorrow.
What was true and painful in 2020 doesn’t have to be in 2021.
Why not spend some time – today or tomorrow, today AND tomorrow – recounting all of the ways you crushed it in 2020?
How you were an amazing wife.
How you were kind and understanding to yourself.
How you stretched your potential and reached your goals.
Those stories are there. I’m SURE of it.
And when you start the New Year from the place of remembering how much you created and how loving you are… that’s exactly what you’ll make more of in 2021.
Warrior Bees. That’s us.
All of us.
Not to be confused with Murder Hornets. They were so 2020. #overit
You are the hero of your life. Your marriage. Any time you want to be. And packing up 2020 so that you can embark on a fresh, new 2021 is the exact time to shine and sparkle. To tell the loveliest story possible and to make all of that true moving forward.
Can’t wait to see it all play out.
Love to you all.
Every single one of you.
Choose courage, now fly!
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